Submission

During my time with Femdom, I've always claimed to be submissive. But was I? I'm coming to the realization that my submission wasn't as complete or full as I thought it was.

I've interacted with a fair number of Domme's on Twitter, IWantClips, OnlyFans and a few other places. Many were good, some weren't good for me, and a few were great. In every case I tried to give as much submission as I could.  Certain things have always made me uncomfortable, and a good Domme will respect your hard limits.

Over time, things change.  What seemed a bridge too far five years ago is now common place.  Have I changed? Or have I been changed? I don't know. What I do know is that the process intrigues me. I have no desire to go back to the way I was, and I'm eager to see what I will consider normal in five years.

What I've learned is that submission isn't just one thing.  It's a process, it's continual, and it's hard.

But it is so worth it.  I have so much peace in my mind knowing that there are some things that I don't have to think about anymore. In fact, thinking about them only leads to frustration as my desires no longer matter.

What is important is that I keep my Domme happy.  She is all that matters. It greatly simplifies my life to focus on only this one important thing.

She has taken control of many aspects of my life. I cannot do any of the following without consulting her first.

• Orgasm
• Sexually touch myself
• Drink anything other than water
• Purchase anything hobby related
• Tribute to any other Domme

She also sets my daily schedule and ensures there is exercise in there on a regular basis.

The whole process has been amazing, and I would recommend you try it out if this sort of thing appeals to you.