If you are submissive it can take some time to find the right Dominant for you. This is not a flaw in you. This is a feature. If you are anything like me, when you first admit to yourself that you are submissive, it's a big step. Exploring this space and learning about yourself takes time.
Each Domme you encounter will teach you something about yourself. Even if it is just "I don't like that at all."Don't be afraid to walk away. As submissives, it's the one power we retain. We can say no and we can walk away.
Keep trying, the right Domme for you is out there. Figure out what you need in a Domme and vocalize that. Although the best Domme's are prescient and always steps ahead of us, they can't reliably read our minds. Tell Her what you want early in the relationship.
Learn as you go, I've learned so much on my journey.
Keep trying. When you find Her, She'll be perfect! Then the hard part begins, you have to demonstrate that you are worthy of Her attention every day.
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